Finding Calm in the Chaos: Lessons from the Canvas
Life's challenges can feel overwhelming, but what if art could offer a path to peace? Join me on a journey to discover the surprising lessons I've learned from watercolour painting – lessons about embracing imperfection, trusting the process, and finding calm amidst the chaos. Discover your space of Zen and find your inner balance.
Diana Quilarque - dianaq.art
3/19/20254 min read


Life can often feel like a whirlwind of challenges, a never-ending series of obstacles and uncertainties. Whether it's a demanding project at work, a personal setback, or simply the daily grind, we all face moments when we feel overwhelmed and uncertain. Recently, I found myself juggling multiple commitments, feeling pulled in a hundred different directions. The stress was mounting, and I felt like I was losing my grip. As I sat down to paint one evening, I realized that the feeling was eerily familiar. Staring at the blank canvas, I felt that same sense of overwhelm, that same uncertainty about where to begin.
But then, I remembered the lessons I've learned from my art. Just as I've learned to navigate life's challenges, I've discovered that watercolour painting can be a powerful tool for finding calm, focus, and resilience in the face of chaos.
The Challenge of the Blank Canvas
The blank canvas can be a daunting thing. It's a vast expanse of white, full of limitless possibilities, but also the potential for failure. When I start a new painting, I often feel that familiar sense of overwhelm. Where do I begin? What colours should I use? How can I possibly capture the beauty of the scene before me?
Over time, I've learned to break down this artistic challenge into smaller, more manageable steps. I start by sketching a simple composition, focusing on the basic shapes and lines. Then, I choose a limited palette of colours, rather than trying to use every colour in my arsenal. Finally, I focus on one small area of the painting at a time, rather than trying to tackle the whole thing at once. I remember painting "Avila: Light and Shadow". I did not know how it would look. It was hard since I admire the Avila Mountain in my born city, Caracas in Venezuela. This approach has taught me a valuable lesson that applies to all areas of my life: big problems can seem less daunting when you break them down into smaller tasks. By focusing on one step at a time, you can gradually make progress and achieve your goals, even when the path ahead seems uncertain.
Embracing Imperfection
In our society, there's so much pressure to be perfect. We're bombarded with images of flawless bodies, perfect homes, and effortless success. It's easy to get caught up in the pursuit of perfection, but I've learned that it's a recipe for stress and anxiety.
In my art, I've learned to let go of the need for perfection and embrace the beauty of imperfection. Watercolour is a notoriously unforgiving medium. Mistakes are inevitable, and sometimes, the most unexpected results can lead to the most beautiful discoveries. I used to get frustrated when a wash didn't turn out the way I planned, or when a colour bled into an unintended area. But now, I see those "mistakes" as opportunities to learn, to adapt, and to create something truly unique. In several of my art pieces, the water creates a wonderful feeling, it is like the water is part of the art.
Just as in life. This is more than accepting ourselves how we are. This is the beauty of our uniqueness
Trusting the Process
When I'm painting, there are times when I feel like I've lost all control. The water is flowing in unpredictable ways, the colors are mixing in unexpected patterns, and the painting seems to be taking on a life of its own. In those moments, I've learned to surrender to the process, to trust my intuition, and to let go of my preconceived ideas. I always had to learn the lesson of losing control!
This act of surrender can be scary, but it can also be incredibly liberating. By trusting the process, I allow myself to be guided by my intuition, to make unexpected discoveries, and to create art that is more authentic and meaningful than anything I could have planned. In those moments, I have to remember to breathe and trust the process. Even when the paint looks horrible,
This is how the experiences show us that even though we need to be prepared for every day and challenge to come, it is possible to trust that what is meant to happen will happen anyway.
Finding Serenity in the Storm
The artistic process can be messy, chaotic, and even frustrating at times. But it can also be a source of profound peace and serenity. When I'm fully immersed in a painting, I find that I'm able to quiet my mind, focus on the present moment, and connect with my inner self.
For me, painting is a form of mindfulness, a way to escape the stresses and anxieties of everyday life. As I dip my brush into the water, mix the colours, and apply them to the paper, I feel a sense of calm washing over me. The world fades away, and all that matters is the act of creation.
During these tough years I have gone through, painting has been my therapy. That is where my art is about feeling and making you feel.
Conclusion
From the blank canvas to the finished painting, the artistic process is full of challenges, uncertainties, and unexpected twists and turns. But it's also a powerful teacher, offering valuable lessons about navigating life's challenges with calm, focus, and resilience.
So, I invite you to embrace your challenges with a sense of creativity and trust. Remember that every obstacle is an opportunity for growth, every mistake is a chance to learn, and every storm will eventually pass.
What are some challenges you're currently facing in your life? How can you apply the principles of calm, trust, intuition and acceptance to those challenges? What activities or practices help you find serenity in the midst of the storm?
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